In his song, “Lean on Me,” Bill Withers says:
Lean on me when you’re not strong
And I’ll be your friend
I’ll help you carry on
For it won’t be long
‘Til I’m gonna need
Somebody to lean on.
He may have written these lyrics back in 1972, but they are timeless, with many artist remakes with each new generation. The message never gets old.
This song brings to mind for us the sense of community found in Suffield. Like all small towns, there will always be issues, but in our town, we still like to believe kindness prevails.
No matter what is going on here, you can always count on an abundance of volunteers to run boards, committees and organizations. Whenever there is a situation such as damaging storm, house fire, accident or other tragedy, the people of Suffield set aside differences and come to the aid of those in need. Like an old-fashioned barn raising, help shows up, works together and accomplishes whatever needs doing.
Throughout the years, Don and I have found ourselves on both sides of the coin, both offering help as well as accepting assistance from those extending a hand. What we find interesting is that the feeling that comes from both is very much the same— caring and being cared for just feels good.
While we both have jokingly been referred to as volunteer-aholics, it isn’t too far off the mark. We enjoy helping and contributing to this beautiful place we call home and feel it is important to do our part. On a different level, these activities provide us our social life and have formed great friendships with like-minded people.
We have found that when the tides turn, it has come back to us full circle. Many of the good people we have served with or assisted in some way have been incredible support to us too. Receiving a helping hand has gotten us both through some difficult times for which we remain thankful. Being there for others also fills our hearts with purpose. This prompts us to suggest finding an area of interest in Suffield to volunteer your time. Get involved, make new friends and a difference. Above all, remember this town belongs to all of us. Be good to each other.